Only Know You Love Her When You Let Her Go

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Dreams comes slow and they go so fast. The pictures of the future painted in the choices made in the present. One choice can alter the dreams that seemed so certain, leading to an unknown future painted in the repercussions of a foot let slip. 

Only know you love her when you let her go. If you hadn't and had instead chose to selfishly cling on to her, the present state of your relationship would have brought a world of disappointment and hurt, and eventually it will end in a heartbreak so shattering there'd be no piecing back together.

 
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The man is called to be a leader and the woman a helper. Both of them when joined together form a team. Without unity, patience, teamwork and hard work, no team can succeed. 
So the moment you begin to feel distanced from the woman who you chose to be your teammate, ask her for an intervention, to find out how interested she really is in seeing the success of the team. 

If you let her speak, she most likely will tell you what the problem is, and if you hear and listen closely you just might be able to reconcile the issues she would bring before you. 
As a leader be brave enough to apologize for your wrongs and endeavor to work on correcting your mistakes. But if you know that the issues are irreconcilable and your team mate is ready to leave, that's exactly what you should let her do. 
You'll only know you love her when you let her go.

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