No Matter The Pressure, Be Yourself.

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It's easy to fall prey to feelings of low self esteem. Especially when watching your peers act in a certain way that makes you feel uncomfortable, but then you realise that they too expect you to act the same way.
It's ok to say no. Some things are not meant for everyone, that's why different people have different personalities, different likes and dislikes, different opinions.
It's okay to be yourself, and if you realise that your peers makes it difficult for you to be yourself, don't change yourself to please them, instead find a new group of people that share your ideas and visions.
No matter the pressure, just be yourself.

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Life is all about steps and stages, and this principle holds true wherever you may be in the world.
Apply the right steps to any problem and you will find that there is a solution at the end, leading you to the next stage.
When faced with the problem of being yourself in an environment that's not supportive of your kind of personality, you have the option of adapting or absconding.
Adaptation may come with it's own challenges but absconding or running away would hinder true growth and acceptance of the real you.
Meanwhile adapting to your environment opens you up to appreciate different ideas and values, and thus creates an opportunity for you to learn about the nature of those around you. There's also a possibility of evolving to a better version of you.

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You can't force people to like or accept you, so don't ever try to impress anyone.
If you are diligent enough and put in enough time and energy to your work, study, marriage, relationship, friendship, and work more at developing your potentials, the result of your hard work would be enough to encourage you to do more and who ever values your dedication would be impressed without any invitation from you.
Be at peace with yourself, invest more on your thoughts, develop your ideas and more than anything else, no matter the pressure be yourself.

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And here's a link to download and enjoy "Simi" in this tune she titled "Original baby"

Here's your link to download.Enjoy.




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